MLCer or addicted infidel?

[newmama]

I'm not seeing a pattern. Just increased interest in chatting w/me and increased interest in kids. He is still picking and choosing where he wants to be responsible to them rather than a true responsibility to them. DS is sitting around with a broken arm and limited activity b/c it is not in a cast yet. He is missing our friendship but doesn't want to 'be' a friend to me.

If he is getting to pick and choose where he wants to be and he is flaking, then maybe it's time for more boundaries or a schedule or something!

If you aren't seeing a pattern, does that mean he is just acting willy nilly every day, like acting based on his emotions? If his emotions are all haywire, then something must be up with his life with OW don't you think?

And I totaly relate to what you said about your H missing your friendship but doesn't want to be a friend to you. In fact, I bet we all can! Good way to describe it.