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SANDI.....what does she mean that if she would of stayed with me she would of eneded up being a unhappy and bitter person and not a good mother to our son??


It's all part of the WAW script. She has to try and justify her reasons for leaving you. She is saying that staying with you would have made her so unhappy & bitter and in return she would not have been a good mother b/c of the unhappiness.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!