Well here's mine

[Barkley]

Sandi,

My first instinct was to get defensive about this, but after thinking about it, you may have a point. I will try a heartfelt apology with no "but's" in it. I would like to add one thing for you to think about though, you mentioned "as women" above, well "as men" we are NOT mind readers. I had absolutely NO IDEA she was unhappy until she finally said something. Had I known, I would have changed some things a long time ago. I don't think ya'll beleive us when we tell you this. It is NOT a lame excuse....we just don't communicate the same way sometimes