SA - thanks for asking the question about pride and the open door. I have wondered this as well. If a year or two down the road things don't work out with the OW, I worry my H's pride will keep him from coming back or saying anything to me.

Guess Snodderly means we have to have faith and be open and available. Its hard to know if our MLC will have the strength to approach us again.

Hope you have a great Sunday! How did the wallpaper go?


Me - 38
Husband - 40 MLC!
Together 12 years
Married 11 years
Still the love of my life
Forever only lasted 10 years before his MLC and affair

H started D paperwork 5/13/10