H came again yesterday and got more stuff. Didn't go well. H saw tears. Told him I didn't like that he wouldn't come home to stay or visit so quit coming to get stuff. He said he'd make a list and come back once more to get the rest and "then it'd all be done". That's when I got upset. Told him I don't get how after 17 years together, he has no more emotion about this than he would taking the garbage can to the road. He's acting like this is no more of a big deal than that is. Told H that I deserve to know why and what happened for him to be fine one day, have a week of him acting crazy and then it end with him telling me he wants a D. All that he would say was that he was unhappy and tired of the sh*t between us. Asked what sh*t because there was none and he only said we'd talk soon because he wasn't going to talk in front our daughter. Amazes me that he can up and leave and not care about anyone but himself, can refuse to listen to my kids when they want to talk, come take his stuff repeatedly in front of them, but suddenly their feelings come into play when I want to talk!
