Snodderly, Thank you so much for answering that for me.
My H is a prideful man, IF there ever comes a time when he might admit that what he's done was a mistake is there anything I could do to let him know he could come to me and trust that I wouldn't squash what pride he has left?
I have felt this way for a while now and hope that it wouldn't change for me no matter what our circumstances are when/if it happens.