No, this is not good... because you are using the boyfriend.
Oh well, the cycle of abuse goes on.
AGREED.
Doodles, moments of occasional playfulness and even flirtiness with your exH are fine and even healthy. To pursue anything there, even just via continued text messaging after the visit, is going to mess with your head . . . AND your heart . . . at a time when you really need the first to be in top shape, and when the second is still healing from its deep wound.
