1. Remove trees from the yard 2. Hang photos up 3. Buy things for the house
Does THAT sound like someone who is planning on leaving? Or do you think she MIGHT just be TESTING your resolve and commitment here?
She was talking about the future two weeks ago, too, as she was contacting OM, lying about it, fantasizing about him, and telling OIN she was still divorcing him.
I think we've all gotten caught up in the past 36 hours about one phrase of advice: "tell your wife that she's no prize," which Lotus herself said was NOT supposed to be "in those words." The KEY POINT some of us are trying to make is that OIN needs to call his wife on her disrespectful and rude behavior (something I've been saying for two MONTHS), and that she has to declare herself to be trying to reconcile or is she still out shopping for OM and trying to actively leave the marriage?
Yes, the above are normally good signs. But OIN's wife has shown herself to be a little different than the average bird, too. We need to know that she's doing these things WHILE sincerely not contacting OM, not lying to her husband, and not actively trying to divorce him.
