Divorce in 1 month Help with exposing please need

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Ok more on my stich allen and sandi.

We did, i still do live in small town where our house and company is. Wife moved to eugene which is a 100 miles away.

I realize now that any time i even think about going down wife tells people lies about me to protect her self from the stich.

I quote if you come down you need to call in advance.
She needs to make shure other man is not around i get that now.


What do you think of me driving down their inviting her entire family out for lunch and expose this, where we all can sit down and talk.The step FIL, MIL, BIL, SIL real FIL step MIL and WAW. I know if i did this just sent them a text stating who all i wont to come that it would putt so much pressure on the stich.

What really pisses me off MIL used to brag about me how daughter was happpy. House company give her money to go shopping. I was the greatest guy in the world.
Butt when we had son she would tell us we live to far away that i got wife locked away in the boonies and i was like her real dad and all her freinds were down their and that she didnt need to make any freinds here.Oh and when wife and guy were talking they are just freinds and you are just controlling and jeoulos.
This woman has NO morale values.I dont even know how i could get her to be on my side when i know she gives bad advice.

I realize now wy she wont talk to real FIL and BIL because they know the truth and they dont support it.

Ever sence FIL confronted her she wont talk to him or take any of his phone calls. The funny part her and her dad didn't really have a relationship till we got married because MIL turned my wife against him. her Real dads sister who MIL was still freinds with hasent talked to them in three months because she told wife she was making a big mistake that im a good man.

Found out from BIL that when WAW was house sitting when him and SIL went on honeymoon she didn't feed or water his dog who was in a pin in june when we had a heat wave and he died no food or water. She was at the house with O/M its amazing how everyone suffers with WAW and O/M acttions.

It seems that anyone that has anything to say is getting cutt out of wifes life its pretty sad beause they are family.

WAW wife texted me last night said she does not want any thing in the divorce. No part of house, no part of company,any bills in her name she will take any bills in my name i take, she said she just wants a free break, And we will split join cutody of son.
WOW THIS IS A BIG DEAL SHE DOESN'T WANT ANYTHING NOW!

What do you guys make of this guilt and she is trying to get me to take the pressure off?????


And should i reply with something about her not being able to be a good mother to our son if she would of ended up being a unhappy and bitter person?
NOTE the words.... would of ended up being unhappy!!!

What kind of mother are you to our son now??

SANDI.....what does she mean that if she would of stayed with me she would of eneded up being a unhappy and bitter person and not a good mother to our son??