Thank you all so much for the advise. If she dares to text me again I will be forwaring it to another number and not read it. As we have a court case pending for childcare arrangments I do need to keep them. However in the meantime I wont be reading them or responding. It will not effect me.

In fact I am going to go for a makeover next weekend and then sign up to some dating websites - time to move on.

Any ideas on how to deal with the pickup - dropoff of childrean scenario as my XH still continues to bring her along in the car and parade her in the front of all our neighbours. I try to not look but it is really hurtful!!!


Me 37 years young!!
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D final 13.05.2010
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