I feel your pain, I really do! Just found out from S15 and S11 that STBXH just bought a wedding set online last week for him and OW and we won't be D'd until July 20th! Shes' already trying to make decisions about the boys that should be made between their dad and I. But then again, just found out 5/19, my bday, that H is going for sole custody and sole decision making in regards to the boys when they have been with me more than with him since they've been born!
Hang in there,,they are crazy not you!! And altho its' terribly painful, (I can't even listen to the radio right now, just reminders of a lifetime of memories he will be spending w/someone else), it will turn out good for you and your children will havea parent who can truly support them thru this difficult time!
When one door closes another opens!
YOU ROCK GF!!
Kim
M44H44 M18 T22 Sep7yrs-3/10 S23,22,15,11 10/07I file 2/08D postponed by H 2/09D on 3/09H moves in 8/09I kick H out 9/09H-PA 10/09-2/10mediate 3/10OW discoved 5/10H&OW engaged 7/10DDay w/atty
