THE OW CONTACTED ME - WHAT??

[Kim07]

Lea74,,,,,,

I AGREE WITH SANDI2. I'M GOING THRU THE SAME SITCH NOW AND MY D WILL BE FINAL JULY 20TH! ALL THO OW IS NOT CONTACTING ME, STBXH IS AND PER MICHELE W.D. AND MY ATTY,,SAVING THOSE TM'S AND E-MAILS FROM THE LAST 5YRS WAS THE BEST THING I DID!! I FORWARDED THEM (TIME & DATE SENT TOO)TO MY ONLINE PERSONAL ACCT THRU MY CELL PROVIDER AND THEN COPIED THEM ALL TO PAPER FOR MY ATTY. STILL DOING IT TO THIS DAY B/C OF ALL THE INCONSISTENCIES MY ATTY SAID WILL PUT ME IN A BETTER POSITION AT THE TRIAL.

MY H HAS TOLD SO MANY LIES THAT THEY'RE CATCHING UP WITH HIM AND HE IS PERJURING HIMSELF IN HIS INTEROGATORIES. MY ATTY ALSO SAID THAT WHEN IT COMES TO THE KIDS MY COUNTY IS VERY HARD ON OP'S OR X'S WHO HARASS THE OTHER PARTY THRU THEIR CHILDREN,,ITS' A FORM OF ABUSE AND ITS' THE WORSE THING THEY CAN DO. THEY MIGHT AS WELL KISS THEIR CASE GOODBYE IF ITS' AFFECTING THE KIDS AND IS CONSTANT.

MY M COULDN'T BE SAVED SO I TRUST MICHELE WHEN SHE SAYS I NEED TO PROTECT MYSELF AND MY CHILDREN!!!

IMO,,FORWARD OR COPY THE TM'S TO PAPER OR INBOX AND THEN DELETE SO YOU DON'T HAVE TO LOOK AT THEM UNTIL OR IF YOU GET D'D. IT IS TRUE THAT CONTINUED EXPOSURE TO THIS KIND OF CRAP WILL ONLY INSPIRE YOU TO MAKE A BAD DECISION, BTDT,,YUCK! WHEN ALL IS SAID AND DONE YOU CAN THROW AWAY THE COPIES.

YOUR DOING GREAT B/C YOUR RISING ABOVE AND NOT LOWERING YOURSELF TO THEIR LEVEL,,THEY WILL HATE THAT MORE THAN ANYTHING AND YOUR CHILDREN WILL BENEFIT BY WATCHING YOU RESPOND TO STRESSFUL SITCH'S APPROPRIATELY,,UNLIKE YOUR H & OW.

YEP,,JUST LIKE MY H & OW, THEY DESERVE EACH OTHER!! SEEMS THEY BOTH FEED OFF OF DRAMA,,ICKY!

KIM