My husband is addicted to an emotional affair

[nicole8]

Well the h is being rather rude. I went over to his moms on thurs night to talk. He basically told me all the same stuff he has been saying about himself again... That he is a loser and hates his life it totally sucks and I don't meant to be with him. Here is the part that upset me. He said he doesn't particarly like his mom (WTF?), he pointed at his dads picture and said "I was my dads boy...) do you think I like my brother too? Because I don't he's an ass, but I put up with him because of that guy (pointing at his dads pic again) that's my penance in life.

He doesn't want to "chit chat" with me.... He doesn't think it will do any good. He just wants out of the marriage and he needs my help. Really? He will barelylook at me and claims be gets that lump again.

I basically just got up and left... My h is not there at all. The aliens took him. He texted later and said " I'm sorry I don't know what you expect or want from me"

Now he is bugging me again to pick up the papers. He is coming in the morning. He said again the other night he wants nothing he just wants out.

I am so lost and just don't know what to do except let him go and find himself. I think he is still seeing the ow. I don't know how to confirm it but I think he is and that is why he is being pushy about the papers.