So I went to SIL's H's graduation. All was fine until SIL started talking about WH again. . . I admit I wanted to hear, so I didn't stop her.

+ Last week after she and I saw Babies, she called him to see if he wanted to hang out for a bit. He answered the phone at least, but he said he had a bunch of guys over drinking so he couldn't. (It was 5 pm.)

+ During that same phone call, though, he asked her who she saw the movie with. She said me. He asked how I was. She answered something about me looking good. And he said no, how is she really? And she said she didn't know exactly. And he said "Should I call her?" And she said she didn't know, but probably yeah.

+ And then this really pisses me off. He attended the graduation yesterday. He was LATE and then he LEFT EARLY saying he had a party to get to.

What a frickin a**hole. His BIL is graduating and he's got to rush over to a party? That has OP written all over it. Or at the very least, desperate, embarassing PRICK. That's all I keep thinking. He is so embarassing to me right now. How humiliating in front of his BIL's family, showing up late and leaving early.

Fortunately that was about all I heard before we were cut off and the subject changed. She did say though that she's so mad at him and she cried all the way back home after watching Babies and talking with him. Oh yeah, and

+ She asked him how much involvement he wanted to have with the baby and he said he didn't know.

What a motherf***er. And with all his issues, that should be really insulting to him.

So I'm obviously really pissed, and I will probably revise my email a tad to not be so accommodating. It's funny that NC can make you think more fondly about your own WAS. But once I hear about him again, I'm back to GET AWAY FROM ME!

I was getting to the point today where I was thinking I could be there when he meets her. Maybe even the 3 of us. But now I'm like hell no, I don't want to be around that loser.

Oh and when I talked with Other Sister on the phone today, she said that the only reason she was coming to this area in July was to see ME and the baby. smile Big omission? Seeing her brother.

So yes, I am blessed to have such great ILs. I just have to enforce the no WH-talk because I don't need to waste time thinking about him other than his fathering duties.