Dont' be discussing children NOW, that's not a good idea no... Just make it clear SUBTELY that you want kids... If you two are out for example and see a couple with a child point that out to your wife with a smile... That should be enough.
Oh no, of course not. I am talking about the first week or two into our sitch we were. Also I been doing exactly that, for example while shopping I pointed at baby shoes and smiled and said "I like those, they are cute"
I got burned by W too many times in the past 4 months thinking things are getting better then she drops the bomb again. I am staying detached as possible. She wants something for the house, let her get it, she wants something done for the house that I am not already doing, she do it or let FIL lend a hand.
M: 27, W: 25 Together since: 01/31/00 M: 10/4/09 (8 Months) ILBNILWY: 01/24/10 EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted). Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10 Retrouvaille: 09/10/10