We'll see how long this attitude last. I learned from the past, if she wants something I let her follow through with it, I was spending way too much money thinking I was helping our sitch only to find I was being setup for failure.
Yep, and I agree with you, dont' bankrupt yourself, your wife needs to grow up and learn how to spell budget just like anyone else does.
But the silver lining here is that she's showing some positive indicators... Just not many... She's not been a complete shrew for months...
Dont' be discussing children NOW, that's not a good idea no... Just make it clear SUBTELY that you want kids... If you two are out for example and see a couple with a child point that out to your wife with a smile... That should be enough.
you have to decide how much progress you are making and if its worth YOUR time to continue it or ask her to go and move on...
You just keep a look out for those positive signs, they are there... They won't be consistent, she's going to have good and bad days...
You have to decide if she's showing signs that things might gradually, VERY gradually get better as OM fades away into the background... Keep a VERY CLOSE EYE ON THAT
