W heard about this got upset and complained to friend from work that it was reciprocated and now OM is making it out to be all her. Friend from work tells W to "move on" and try to work on marriage (so I was told but who knows).
Good, lots of pressure in your direction. Each time the OM blames your wife in public it does a LOT of damage to her fantasy... which is a good thing... so let him blame your wife all he wants to... He's just driving your wife away which is what you want...
Originally Posted By: OfficerInNeed
W calls FIL talks to him about the sitch, not sure if W told FIL the whole truth... but FIL tells W "Tell the people at work to F-Off" and "If they call the house again tell them to go F themselves" W loves and respects her father and his word is Gospel
She won't tell him everything... I would love to see OM, OMW and FIL get together to chat.. I think those two would straighten your FIL out a bit too... He needs to get his arse out of the clouds too...
I agree with Lotus in part, your wife is not behaving like a prize for sure... but then again few of us do consistently...
It looks as if things are getting better for you OIN... I don't think this is the time to change your strategies... I do think they are making a dent, the holdup wasn't your efforts as much as your wife holding a candle for OM and OM NOT doing the WORK to END the AFFAIR COMPLETELY...
He clearly just distanced himself and was hoping that would be enough. That is NOT how you end an affair... His wife needs to educate him... mabye we can find some articles on how to end affairs and send them to OMW for HER to educate him on it... He likley wanted to remain "friends" to keep stroking his ego... But the end result was him leading her on like some silly high school game
