Cause for alarm?

[OfficerInNeed]

I don't know to be honest. We been here before during our sitch. I mean in the begging of our sitch we talked about having children. Throughout our sitch W spoke future tense and then would retract or contradict her statement or the next day.

I made a post around Easter time where W wanted to get patio furniture and I said "Sound good, where do you want to go?" then she said "Up to you, you'll be the one paying and you got too many bills already and have you figured what your going to do about the mortgage once I leave?"

We'll see how long this attitude last. I learned from the past, if she wants something I let her follow through with it, I was spending way too much money thinking I was helping our sitch only to find I was being setup for failure.