Cause for alarm?

[OfficerInNeed]

As it were, they work together 3 times a week. After the first exposure OM requested not to work directly with W anymore. From there I was told they still say "hi" and "bye" but nothing like it was. Then a little over a week ago my friend seen chit-chatting and that's when I called OMW and told her what was going on.

This caused problems for OM and he then played dumb. He then admitted to W that there was some communication and he would end it. OM then told W he would talk to the supervisors and I guess he did. One of the sups is a friend of OMW and confirmed that OM at least talked to her.

OMW and OM speak to us on the phone. OM swears and sticks up for his family. OMW gets on phone degrades my W and said "My husband called you ..... and said he could never leave me for that, so snap out of you fantasy world, you are a little kid, grow up."

W heard about this got upset and complained to friend from work that it was reciprocated and now OM is making it out to be all her. Friend from work tells W to "move on" and try to work on marriage (so I was told but who knows).

W calls FIL talks to him about the sitch, not sure if W told FIL the whole truth... but FIL tells W "Tell the people at work to F-Off" and "If they call the house again tell them to go F themselves" W loves and respects her father and his word is Gospel