Did no expect to come home and see so much activity in this thread. Thank you all for the feedback.
Here is how today went.
After work, W showered and slept for a couple hours. She got up and dressed to leave. We took a ride to the mall to Dave & Busters. We played a bunch of arcade games then did some bowling. We had a pretty good time. It was almost like 2 friends hanging out.
There were times were W was kind of short with me where she would say "hmm?" or "what?" or "umm hmm" things like that. I guess this is something I have to tolerate for now.
After we too a walk around the mall then left and headed to another store. It was a craft store and W talked about getting picture frames to put pictures on our dogs on the wall.
W then headed to a hardware store and W talked about getting a few things for the yard, I said nothing really other than "That would be nice" I was looking at vertical blinds for out living room W and I had interest in the same color/style. W asked "Do you want to get them" I replied "If you like them and want them, then get them. I do like them myself" W did purchase them.
We then headed home. When we arrived the dog had a mess waiting for us. We both cleaned up the mess. We then laid in bed and played a little family feud.
We communicated better today and had a pretty good time at the arcade and bowling. I am trying my best to fill that "void" without pursuing. There were times I wanted to press my luck but refrained from doing so. I am doing my best to develop a friendship and becoming someone she is comfortable around and talk to.
I don't know if there were any interactions with OM at work today or any discussion about him between her or anyone else.
M: 27, W: 25 Together since: 01/31/00 M: 10/4/09 (8 Months) ILBNILWY: 01/24/10 EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted). Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10 Retrouvaille: 09/10/10