They had a big fight and he told the supervisor OIN's wife was pursuing him and he got his shifts changed...

I always qualify with "if" the affair is over and out of her head.. and I think its leaving now slowly...

His wife has invited him on outings with her and such... She IS having a LOT of trouble verbalizing anything even remotely nice his way... But the actions are on the odd day inviting and others not so much... BUT its been revealed now that she's been fantasizing about OM and that he was leading her on at work still...

There was a blow up about a week ago where they had a big fight and she's been humiliated at work now..

I think that shift in the politics there may change her attitude at home now... I am inclined to keep up the warm outlook at home to see what effect this change in her work enviornment has on her... She's been in dreamland for months