It IS a lot easier to convince someone to cooperate with you when the temptation to escape doesn't have a face and a voice... Why play hardball if it isn't necessary?
OIN has been trying to "convince his wife to cooperate with him" for as long as he's been posting here. I don't see it working, and supplication rarely (ever??) does.
Allen, your advice is fit for a woman who has ended an affair, is contrite, and has returned to the marriage to try to reconcile. THAT IS NOT THE CASE HERE. We're not even certain there's still no contact (I'm pretty sure there is???), there's NO remorse, and her CURRENT POSITION IS THAT SHE STILL IS DIVORCING HIM AS SOON AS HER FATHER HAS THE HOUSE READY.
Someone please tell me what I'm missing. Hell's bells, if nothing else, when LOTUS and I agree, that oughta tell you something, LOL.
