I just can't take it anymore

[Serenity13]

James~

We have had this conversation before...Let me try this again...

In order for your wife to be bi-polar, there has to be signs...Not just one or two...It can't be diagnosed by you either...

Your W is playing the blame game and you are doing everything in your power to stick her in a nice neat box to justify what she has done...

Can't fit her in the MLC box or the PTSD box so let's try the bi-polar box...How about instead you call a spade a spade or in this case a cheater a cheater...

Just because a person has bi-polar doesn't mean they are going to cheat on you...Yes they can have a high sex drive however most spouses are happy for that...Being bi-polar isn't an excuse for crappy behavior, lack of morals, character or judgement, it isn't an excuse for destroying lives and it isn't an excuse for sleeping around...

I was diagnosed 23 years ago and I don't cheat, I don't have multiple sex partners and I don't go around destroying people...I have a head on my shoulders and a brain in that head...Know what I do with that? I use it.

Stop handing her a justification on a silver platter and start working on yourself...

Konfuseeed asked for 30 days from you - I asked for 7...7 days without worrying about what your wife is doing, who she is doing or where she is doing it...You couldn't even give me 1 day...

How about an hour? One whole hour? Instead of saying she isn't ever going to talk to you again or she is never coming back or you hate being here and want to die because your family was everything and now you have nothing, try being thankful for the gift in front of you...

You woke up today and somewhere, someone else didn't...You have a roof over your head and right now someone is sleeping on the street in the rain, you have food in your belly and a child is going to bed hungry tonight...

Find something positive to focus on otherwise the negative is going to change you into a bitter and hateful man.

(((Hugs)))