Well I was so surprised when my husband came to see us...it has been a yr since we saw him...He and his O/W have moved back to Texas about 3 hrs away much closer than 17 hrs. He looked really happy to see us. He came in and I hugged him and he hugged me back. we went and visited my mom and some other family....he took out our daughter for dinner they had a good time which is wonderful I want her to have some kind of relationship with her father. He hasnt been one lately to her but all went well, just as he was leaving I could tell he wanted to hug me but he couldnt....so I hugged him and again he did the same. am so glad it went well, I think he thinks I am going to cuss him out or hit or something like he doesnt know how I will react...I am just so happy for my dughter she said to me it felt good when we were all together she said it felt like her family again.....God bless her...just an update no expectations very civil....the way it should be...
