Hi Jackie

How long will the boys be gone?

Making a new list of goals is a great idea. Having a list to look at helps me so much to stay focused.

Do something nurturing for yourself every day. Take advantage of this time to do some things that are harder to do with the boys at home.

I agree with the others that your H sounds scared and hurting. It is so hard to see this when he's being so hurtful to you, but I believe it is there.

Hang in there. You are such an example of strength - for your H, your boys and for everyone here.

Thank you for your posts to my thread. They really mean alot to me. I will check out the Just for Fun forum - I haven't ever looked at it.

(((((Jackie)))))


Mockers2 "Somehow we survive, and tenderness frustrated does not wither." Dennis Brutus, South African poet "That which does not kill us makes us stronger." Friedrich Nietzsche