Originally Posted By: ken5140
I have to be careful how I do it though, because the last time I left two articles on my desk, she said I was trying to manipulate her.


Ken, you need to decide :

a. Is my wife just lashing out because she's addicted?
b. Or am I making the layout at my desk so obvious a setup?

Put the articles at YOUR DESK... I assume you have a work area at home she doesnt' use.. put them in YOUR AREA.

Then...

WIFE : You're trying to manipulate me
YOU : Right, by leaving MY reading materials at MY desk... I am such a MONSTER... How DARE I?

And WALK AWAY