I forgave him and am no longer bitter towards him or resent him. I had those feelings for a long long time.
I would not have taken the path my h has chosen, but then again I am not him and we are not perfect human beings.
GG, I'm just noticing how we used the same words in our posts. That is exactly what I'm talking about. I think that letting go of that will make life better for us, no matter how this turns out.
I've had people comment on how *well* I seem to be doing since H left. I'm not calling him names or telling the world our secrets (except for here), I'm just not playing those games that so many people in our shoes choose to do. I don't see the point.
Trying to hurt H will inflict more pain upon not only myself, but our children, as well.
Enough damage has been done already. Being bitter and malicious is not going to help anyone.
It's a step in the right direction. Good for you. (((hugs)))
formerly known as "shelbel" Me 40, stbxh 40 DSs 9, 7 & 3 M9, T10 Stbxh is a diagnosed bipolar & an addict. The end.
