Your W feels no sexual attraction towards you. The Mother's Day event put pressure on her. You tried too hard and your true emotions showed through. In other words, she knew you were trying to make brownie points....and if you were honest, you had hoped that it would maybe even win you some affection. She "knows" this. You are not hiding it very well.

I don't know what it will take for her to feel attracted to you, but she doesn't feel it now.....and that is the main problem. If a woman feels that sexual attraction, she'll put up with an awful lot, but if she doesn't, then nothing you do will help the cause. NOTHING! You can clean house till the cows come home.....and all the other stuff you may be doing, but she's got to have that attraction before it works.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!