She's not searching for a new mate now... that road is closed, which is why I am reccomending taking a softball approach here... I am suspecting that his wife may be reconsidering her husband as a viable alternative now that the interloper may indeed be gone.

I think while she's reconsidering her husband as a viable option the LAST thing he wants to do is start to pick on her attitude...

And i do believe that MWD agrees with ME here... No where in DR do I recall seeing her suggest that you chastize your wayward spouse as not being a prize...

Wasn't it you Lotus who said "you can catch more flies with honey?" I am seeing a much different approach from you now for some reason...