I really did not mean to suggest that OIN use those particular words, I was just summing up the idea that she needs a dose of reality to learn that OIN has some standards for a wife to meet. He is not interested in being married just until something better comes along for her, and he does not want to be treated like a servant. If those are the terms of the marriage, then he needs to rethink if he wants it. She is not the only one who can say the marriage does not meet her goals.
