That would be an easy way to explain it, but I don't think so.
W likes sex. So do I. At the same time she will say she could go without it the rest of her life. Father molested her and her sis. Her oldest bro made her give him os when she was 12. She's never dealt with either.
She wants to please, hence "why she does what her body loves but her mind hates". Then feels terrible, and cannot be honest with herself that she initiated it and likes it, so blame it on the other party.
NO, NO, NO more is that going to be my life! She can be alone and have no issues with it. She can get counseling and try to sort through it and be honest about it, but I am NO longer going to be the fall guy in this. NO MORE!
