H sounds fearful. I am learning that fear is the worst thing we have to deal with in our sitches. Give him time. Do not give up.
H said he knows I will always be here for him....that's a positive. H may be needing to figure himself out. Let him.
You continue to work on you. Work on "getting a life" now more than ever. You need to appear independent, happy, self assured, and attractive. Attract him back, don't promote the R...don't promote the M...attraction. Let him see for himself that he belongs with you!
