The main thing that hurts me is the other women thing. He is complaining that he is so lonely (the young OW is not single and just stringing my H along), and actively sweet-talking about three or four different women (lying to all o them that they're the "only one" he's talking to). He is dating, and thinks nothing about me or our kids or our marriage:-( This is what makes me think there is no hope. He seems deadset on us never getting back together and moving on with another woman.

Is there a chance I'm wrong? Anyone have a story of MLC spouse simular to mine in which the spouse did end up coming back to reconcile the marriage?


M: 34
WAH: 38 (in MLC)
Together: 11 years
Married since: November 2000
DS: 15
DS: 11
DS: 10
ILYBINILWY: Dec. 2009
Living separately since: April 2010