Do you see how YOU are creating the drama that is feeding this Affair?
You are destroying yourself! You must stop this.
You are not facing your fear. What are you afraid of? So what if she leaves. You have already lost her. Could your life get any worse? Will you be ok, emotionally? financially? Will you be alone forever? WHat are you really afraid of? Face it and realize anything is better than your current sitch. Then I think you will be able to act and save your marriage.
"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!" 1st thread