No, that's not the way to do it. Besides, if you expose, you need to be in control of your emotions. You never do this on impulse and never act out of emotions.
Give yourself time to get to a better place than you are tonight. Go over to the infidelity forum to read how to bust an A before you decide on anything.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
