My Wife And Her Emotional Affair

[sandi2]

I know. I remember you saying that the first time I suggested it. But, you'd make a point in trying to get her out. As it has been said, you need to show her you are not just going to lay back as if to say "It's okay, honey, go on and have an A and I will be here if you ever decide to be a wife again".

You've always pointed out that she would get mad. So what? Let her get mad.....in fact, if she's going to get mad....give her something to get mad about. I've read where she got plenty mad at you for doing nothing.....so make it worth something.

I also remember another time you thinking that she would discourage OM to back off. Don't you see the games they play with you? Don't you see how this is going around and around? I thought there at one time you might actually carry though with what Allen was coaching, but then you have second thoughts and back down. You convince yourself that OM will stop calling W, or that maybe she'll back away.....and then everything is repeated again.

I don't know how much longer this merry-go-round will continue before she either loses any hopes at ever respecting you again, or you lose any hope of loving her.