MWG, You said the right thing.

I am sorry for your D; it will be hard for her to forget this when it comes to her dad.

I am happy for your D, though, as it sounds as if she did well. It must be a proud feeling.

M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D