Db not working, MLC spouse pushing D

[foreverhesaid]

Thanks for stopping by, SA!

I certainly can propose what the lawyer said, but since its H that is pushing for the divorce I don't think he'd do that. My H had talked about how he doesn't want to drag things out, wants to get out the quickest way possible.

I think its because the OW is putting pressure on him and I have put up as many roadblocks as possible. If my H would just take the money,without divorce, it would mean he'd have doubts about his relationship with OW and I, of course still want to work on our marriage. Of course I'd rather have the marriage than the money! Its just kind of a hard idea to present. If I say "you know things with OW will just fall apart anyway." I'll get an immidiate denial and have to hear about how they are soul mates and she's the love of his life. I don't know if there is another way to propose this and not bring that up.

We've had rain off and on all day. I kept myself busy running errands, helping out a sick friend, and got a new short haircut! H will be surprised when he comes home, as my hair was past my shoulderblades.