still separated, headed for D?

[newmama]

Forgot this in the movie- it relates to BD's comment:

Start looking forward and start understanding the process of forgiving and letting go of the hurt... its good for you so that you can heal... and also prepares you for step on if you and H reconcile.

In the movie, Hal Halbrook plays a man who lost his wife and son in a drunk driving accident. He tells Chris that "forgiveness is love... when you forgive, you feel God's light shining down on you. You feel love." WHOA. DEEP. and I think true.

I think I will be able to forgive WH eventually if we D. It's just that I will be able to forgive him a lot sooner if we R! lol! Same goes for OW.