Hey, man, just wanted to give you another tool that can benefit you in thinking of how to proceed with your W.
Look at the John Trent/Gary Smalley personality profiles. It's the one that has lion, otter, golden retriever, and beaver. I did a google search for various feedback on it, and it will help me in a big way as I deal with my situation. You have been married long enough to know both your and your W's personalities.
The way it is helping me is to know how TO relate to my W, and how NOT TO relate to my W based on our personalities. There are other personality test out there, but I found this one easy and very accurate. It is helping me understand some of the "why's" that I'm asking myself.
