Hey are you going to join us for lunch in Boston a week from Saturday? I'm flying in from San Diego and a bunch of DBers are getting together. Check out the thread in Just for Fun.
Don't hit your H up with a list - even now, my H is really sensitive to any hints of me "rubbing his nose in it" (even tho' I don't - it's his own guilt talking). But it IS important that your H figure out WHY he was susceptible to this.