If your circle of friends know about W & OM, then why haven't you packed her things and set out by the street? She should not be allowed to come & go as if she still holds the respected place of wife in the home.
I know, you are going to say something about your kids....but this is not what they need, and you need to make some swift and drastic moves.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
