RM I have been at this a long time. I am moving forward with my life, but I treat my h as a friend. I forgave him and am no longer bitter towards him or resent him. I had those feelings for a long long time.

I would not have taken the path my h has chosen, but then again I am not him and we are not perfect human beings.

I have found out that the more I treat my h like a good friend the better we get along for our kids and ourselves.

I talk to my h almost daily and he spends time with me and kids about 5-7 days a week. I think the A has ended. I don't focus on that though. I focus on what I can control.

The kids are doing good. It has helped that my h sees them regularly.

This has not been easy on anyone, but I am at peace with my situation and the direction my life has taken. I have learned much on this journey, but still have many more things that God will continue to show me.

I hope you can find some peace along this journey as well.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"