How do you even start to peice it back together once you do break up the affair?

What can i expect if she does want to work on the marrige?

How many people will think im an idiot and what should i tell them about what im trying to do?

Will the people that dont support what im doing and think that im crazy ever accept me into their lives again.

I think i wll expose the sons dog bite and expose how she was shacked up O/M and she sent son to grandmas so her and O/M could have a little Affair time and the real reason i filed seperation. and the truth is that they were seeing each other prior to that.

She has told some people that they didnt start seeing each other till after the fact and they are just freinds.

I know this is going to be a big blow up and i will have to get back out of the way on this one.


This will be one of my big Ace in the hole.


Me 37
Waw 32
son2
bomb 8/11/09
O/M 12/25/09
Divorce filed 8/25/09
divorce finale 6/16/10
Divorce putt on hold 6/16/10
Divorce postponed STBXW idea 8/8/10