I don't remember jumping your case. I do remember saying that other than the lack of pleasantires, they seemed to get along alright. So I think it was a matter of degree. And then I recommended that OIN talk to his wife about speaking to him at least as well as a stranger. And I think you agreed with that. But, so be it. I think he has more leverage now to set her straight within the marriage because she has become aware that OM is not an option. And, while she has not said she is planning to stay with OIN, it appears that she is comfortable where she is. So I think it is time to let her know that if she does want to stay, she needs to shape up. But, she may not be staying. Either way, I see no reason not to ask her her intentions and let her know that she is not the prize package she seems to think she is.
