So you're going to let the one who HASN'T got the marriage's best interests at heart right now, and who is NOT acting in a healthy way, define your course of action?
That seems like a mistake to me.
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It seems to me that there has got to be a distinctly right time and set of circumstances and a wrong time.
Is that just your opinion, Optimust, or is this based on some research you've done on the subject? I'm not trying to be an ass here, I'm really not, but we often are NOT at our best when we're in the middle of these situations, and our instincts don't usually serve us well. In fact, they are often what got us into the mess in the first place.
What are the things you are doing to get all of your ducks in a row? What is your plan?
