While Depakote is a medication often prescribed for seizures it is also a med prescribed for bipolar disorder. I know that because my sister was on that med for years for the treatment of her bipolar disorder.
When I was diagnosed with my panic disorder I was prescribed Klonopin which was prescribed for me to take in the midst of an anxiety/panic attack.
Nothing you can do if she is not taking her meds. I guess I am wondering what you are doing to hold it all together? Aside from your medical posts everything is about your W. What are you doing to rebuild your life?