In a case like last night, when your W asked if you wanted to do anything, have you thought of slyly "suggesting" some lovin'? Right now it sounds like you two have been living as roommates for a very long time.
I think maybe you should try pushing the friends envelope a little.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.