I have gotten the talk from my wife and know that she is having a affair, She keeps telling everyone we are having problems but that is it.About 15% of the people we know know what is going on.Should I make it public that my wife wants to leave me?Should I tell everyone that she has a boyfriend and she is sleeping with him,One of my former friends.I need some help on this.I feel like I am the bad guy now and all I am trying to do is to be a good dad to my kids in these hard times.She is the one staying out late and coming home drunk.Anyone had this problem before?