a. OM tells YOU he's not going to call your wife b. OM calls your wife
result
c. YOU take offence and feel violated d. your WIFE feels FLATTERED that OM can't stop CALLING HER
You telling your wife that OM called after promising NOT to does NOT prove he's a LIAR to HER.. to HER she considers it a TESTAMENT to his "DEVOTION" to her...
Think Romeo and Julliet here...
a. Parents tell the two not to see each other b. Both cry like children and admit defeat to the parents
c. They contact each other in secret again d. Devotion to one another is again reknewed, both flattered that the other MISSED the other
It doens't prove he's a liar to your WIFE, Ken, just to everyone "In the KNOW" about the facts of infidelity...
We know BOTH sides of the drama, THEY just feel their own side.. SELFISHLY ignoring the damage they are doing.
